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writes:This gentleman and his wife are my close friends. We hang out together along with a few other friends. But there is a girl in our social group that he does not seems to have a lot in common with. He ignores her and does not engage in her conversations when she is around us and other friends. But now that he has returned to our group after a month of absence, he ignores me and seems to be staring at her across the room and grinning at her when she said hello. He seems like he is just meeting her for the first time when already knew her for 4 years. It been barely 5 weeks since he has not seen her. Although she was always a nice girl, why is he suddenly behaving this way? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 I agree only he knows the answer to this nobody else can answer your question. Yes there is obviously a reason why he has changed his attitude towards her, so why not just ask him and see what he says. That's the only way your question will be answered!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 June 2011):
 you would have to actually ASK HIM why his attentions towards her have changed and deepened. ONLY he knows.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ aunt honesty: you still did not answer the question. why I am concerned about it, only I should know. I am just asking what could possibly have changed. That's it. Don't take it as anything about my concern. Even if I was not a part of it (group/situation), I just would like to know what could cause his behavior towards her in this scenario.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 June 2011):
There could be 1000 different explanations as to why his behaviour has changed towards this girl, but really does it matter to you why he is more friendly to her now? I mean should it effect you that he is now showing her more attention?
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