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How do I tell my bf I want to try new things in bed and want to spice things up?

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Question - (3 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so my question is, I have a very high sex drive and even my bf tells me. i use to be a little heavy and i have lost a lot of weight and love to be physically fit now. My bf tells me that he loves the way I look now but The things is though, I like wearing lingerie and sexy things for him. I have to sleep with something sexy because it just makes me feel good about myself. we don't live together but everytime he sleeps over my house, I wear something cute and sexy but it dosent really turn him on. I want to tell him I want to do new thing s to spice up our relationship but dnt no how. we have spent weeks together and believe me, I can do it every day and anytime. How can I tell him that the regular position for me is gettin boring without hurting his feelings. i have no problem with "it" because it satisfies me but I want passion and want to try new things. How can I tell him without hurting his feelings? What can I do to turn him on? He works night shifts so he is usually tired but I love having sex with him and want to spice things up so bad! Help!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2012):

Your question sounds tailor made for this article that you could read outloud to him ? Or at least follow some of the advice?

Here it is

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html

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