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Why did he say he would call and now he hasn't? Do all guys do this? WHY?

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Question - (20 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Alright I know this question is like the ultimate girl question that gets asked all the time

Why doesn't he call back?!?!

except this time its not after the first date, just being niceness,

at this point, we had hung out every weekend at a friends house for 6 weeks in a row, been having sex, gone on like an official date with no tag alongs, and had kinda agreed to a very laid back dating thing. He went out of town for work and said he would call but he never did.....

and i just don't get at how this point that was really a viable option...

when girls ask this question its normally "we had such a great date and he said he would call", then saying things changed or he was being nice, is kinda valid

but seriously am i wrong to think that if he had changed his mind he should have said something.

OR at the very very least the last time we talked not been excited to hang out when he got home

Err these kinda things make me want to be a lesbian

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008):

Why is it always the responsibility of the woman to wait to have sex? women have needs too and it is really hard to say no to a sexy guy. Why can't the guy say no? Maybe I would respect a guy more for saying no. Being 'respected' means nothing if he doesn't respect himself ! How come if a guy sleeps with a girl early on then somehow no-one is telling him that he does not respect himself! That he will find a 'nice' girl if he waits. People should stop preaching to women.

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A female reader, Anonny United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2008):

This is a TYPICAL man thing!

ie Man chases girl

Man dates girl

Man doesn't call girl!

- I wouldn't worry too much there'll be an explanation.

I used to have the same problem - but in my case my guy had another woman at the same time so calling was a bit tricky!!

He may still call! - How long have you been waiting?

Good luck!

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