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writes:I broke up with a man that I dated for like only 3 months. We were very much in love, but at the same time we both had our own issues - nothing that couldn't be worked through. Anyhow, I got upset and broke up with him - he didn't do anything wrong, really, I was just upset. I sent him an email letting him know 'I deserved better'. After that, we were texting back n forth. Then I sent the last text and then I changed my phone number on him. A few weeks later he emailed me. I emailed him back. It's been a few days, and I didn't get an email back from him. I'm confused. Why did he even bother to email? He said he just wanted to say hi. Is that the real reason? How can I get him to want me back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): hi
i found your situation very touching. I almost thought you were my other half at the time! i emailed my ex just like he did to you and i waited eagerly and i still do even though its been three years now. Had i received an email back form her than i would feel a sense of power which would have utalised me to free world whether or not i get back with her. I now personally believe that my sub conscious mind was only trying to make its way out to relief by the fact that im still loved by someone. I still loved her very much at the time when i emailed her but i strongly believe that i might have not want to email her back, maybe for the sweetness of revenge that had kept me in a depressed stuck world and give a taste of my own feelings back. I expressed very feeling and situation to her in the email, however in your situation a humble hi was enough, so i think his not interested as much anymore for what ever reason. And how you can get him back? I think your better off not to, however wish you the best of luck!
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