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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi.. So I've been feeling really depressed since my boss quit his position at our company..I'll just fill you guys in real quick.. I've been sexually attracted to my GM since I first met him in our interview, and I was never able to shake off those feelings. He did a lot of lukewarm flirting with me, so I should of noticed he felt the same way.We'll, aside from the attraction, he's been a great boss and friend otherwise... But after 15 years with our dealership, he decided to quit his job because he wasn't happy with his bosses anymore and the direction we were going in (and he's not the only one!). I was completely shocked but I tried not to let it bother me.Once he quit, he felt he was free to express himself with me, so we finally had sex, and it was amazing! I was happy about this because its what we both have wanted for a long time and I didnt have that ache within me anymore.But honestly, now that im back at work without him, i'm pretty bummed. I thought being able to have a sexual relationship with him would make me feel better about him leaving, but im still down about it. Since he decided to leave, pretty much half the dealership has left along with him for the same reasons. No one here is happy, including me.Im conflicted on what I should do. I feel so out of place here now that he is gone along with the rest of my team. I feel I should stick it out because I want to remain loyal to my sales manager who has done alot for me..But.. I don't see the future of this dealership going in a good direction. I've stayed so long because I loved all my bosses, managers and sales team and I had fun. But with the GM leaving, everyone saw trouble and split and things have turned into utter dysfunction and there is a cloud of doubt and sadness raining over everyone.I really want to leave. I've considered going to his new dealership but with us having sex now, I was thinking I should just not work for him anymore at all because we would probably have to stop once I get hired there.. But either way, I feel like I want to leave. Should I stick it out, or should I move on?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 March 2017):
 Is he married?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (12 March 2017):
 Be responsible. Secure another job before leaving this one.Take your FWB out of the equation and focus on what matters: having another job lined up before quitting.For what it's worth, working with someone you have/had a sexual/romantic relationship with is a bad idea. Things could very easily get awkward and messy, even if you don't get together while working with him.
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