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*ensativeguy010
writes:I've been with my girlfriend for 2 weeks now andwe have been sexually active for 2 weeks strait and she is almost addicted to having sex with me which is fine cuz I usually want it just as much as she does but the other night we were hanging out late and I always stay the night and she wanted to have sex but I wasn't hornet at all and so I didn't want to upset her by just blowing her off I tried toget into it with her but couldn't get a full erection and she got upset. I'm really worried that I couldn't get an erection but I'm sure it mostly has to do with my body being tired cuz I stay at her place all the time and get about 5 hrs of sleep on average. We've also had sex ever single day for more than a week strait sometimes having it twice in one night. It just worries me that I couldn't get an erection
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): I do agree that you need to "recharge" but i do have another piece of information I need to offer up. Do you honestly and fully like this girl? Sometimes men can't get an erection because they don't actually like the one they're with. I'm sure you do, but if there is someone you want to be with instead of her, it will cause difficulties getting an erection.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (21 September 2011):
 I agree with both the people that commented on your question. You really do need to just recharge yourself by getting some rest. In addition, be sure to take in a good amount of vitamins and antioxidants to help your body rebuild.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (21 September 2011):
 Alcohol, tiredness can also have an affect.
If your at it like bunnies, before long your just going to need a recharge, just reasure her that it's not because you don't fancy her etc etc it's just that you really are shattered! And that sometimes, a night of sitting in front of the TV or going to bed early and just cuddling is a very nice idea.
And be reassured your self, your just tired - guys have so much pressure to always be ready for action but guys bodies as well as girls bodies sometimes are just not in "play" mode, have a night apart, and Im sure your find your be back being bunnies again! I'm sure you wouldn't be upset if one night she wasn't in the mood, so don't beat yourself up!!
100% normal!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (21 September 2011):
 It happens, especially when you're tired. Totally normal. Don't let it eat at your confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): Nothing wrong with you. Might be an age thing. As you get older you will get hornier and hornier. Its natural. Maybe you just need a few days to relax, sleep in your own bed, miss each other a bit. Maybe things are moving a bit too fast.
Sex in a relationship is something that you evolve into. When it happens too fast it often gets boring just as fast. Give yourselves a break. Maybe do other stuff together besides having sex. Get to know each other.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 September 2011):
 Stuff happens my friend, happens to the best of us. no need to fret over it though, life goes on. Next time may be better. There is no problem here so don't make one out of it. There will be times that she can't "perform" too, mother nature plays tricks on us all from time to time.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 September 2011):
 There's nothing wrong with you! Your body was drained and needing a recharge. You're spent! Nothing wrong with that.
She needs to ease up on you. I don't know of any guy who hasn't been tired and had his erection fizzle before it happened. It's nothing to be upset at. It's not because you didn't want her.
You need a couple of days to rest, recharge, and relax. Then you can go back to attacking each other again. Don't lose confidence. You're just in need of a recharge!
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