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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What is wrong with me? why can't I get over him? i miss him so much:(?I loved my ex bf so much, but he broke up with me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore.We got in contacts after a month, but I said we can't be friends AND we always end up talking again.He told me he missed me, came to my work place. Took me to lunch, shopping, holding hands.But I said we shouldn't speak anymore AND he says he won't if it'll make me happy. Is been four weeks now, we've been over 5months now and I can't get him out my head. I still love him so much, my heart is still aching.. What should I do? I talk to other guys but am not interested. My ex is all I think about.. He commented on my status few days ago. Even though I said we shouldn't speak. Does it mean anything? Should I ask him anything? Can't get him out my mind:(Thanks..x
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reader, Chrisfeelsnothing  +, writes (10 September 2011):
I'm a guy, and I can somewhat understand what you're going through. I had the same experience from your end. Eventually I just decided to focus on other things and keep myself busy so I didn't worry about it.This may not work for everyone, but it'll help to some extent.Also..if you're wanting to get back with your ex, try to give him some time alone. Don't completely shut him off, but don't really be all that attached until he mentions something, or he seems like he wants you to make the move.Hope it helps,
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