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writes:Why cannot I find a man to lvoe me? I was married years ago but divorced early as he was unfaithful and ran off. I have had boyfriends since and some nice ones but nothing ever lasts although when I see some of my friends and girls at work mine last longer than a lot of those do. A few of the men I went out with for a few weeks/months said you ought to be married (but not to them!!!)( one man said he had never met anyone like me before and said that was a compliment.I do know it HAS to be me but dont know what. I am not looking to get married again and have no kids or baggae-but it would be nice to have someone to go out and about with and go palces and do a few things. I live in a large city so its harde er to meet people believe it or not but it is-as msot people commute in to work. I have tried singles clubs evening classes and made friends but the men are all married. I am not a pub disco person so what else is there. I tried the internet but they either didnt like me or vice vera. I know no one is perfect and I am not looking for mr perfect at all I am not perfect either.if you sleep with a man in early stages does it mean they like you better than if you make them wait a bit. One man said to me its always best to wait if you can-but obviously it depends on the man and occasion etc. I wonder if I should be more in tune with the present and sleep with them at the beginning and perhaps then they would like me more?help pleaseThanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): People always say, "don't panic, someone will turn up when you're not looking" and I say hogwash to all of it! You must be proactive, happy, confident, stand up tall, smile and look men straight in the eye and flirt. All men, married or not, it's good for the soul. Of course, you wouldn't ever do anything with a married man, just so there's no misunderstanding there, it's just good practice. Men can smell desperation, and do not want to be clung to. They like to chase, but like a woman who has a spine, who is interesting and interested. Just go for a walk every day, around the neighborhood and greet everyone, chat up anyone with a child, dog, etc., same in any store, you see the pattern here......
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