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writes:Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love you and never actually tell you he does? And if so, why would he do such a thing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCrazykitt666, I have told him I loved him early on and periodically throughout the 4 years. When I asked him if he loved me, he said no.
I took that at face value and broke it off. I asked him not to contact me because it hurt too much. Weeks went by. I was recovering and spent only 1/2 my time thinking about him when he called. I fell right back in and became a citizen of booty call city again (what else can I call it?).
I'm on the brink of breaking it off for good now.
A decent 1 said it all and I truly believe that yes, he has many in his little black book. Part of the reason for the 4 year continuum was that in a weird way, I enjoyed the challenge (sometimes).
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 To the Last anonymous Poster...
In your case you wouldn't be having sex with that girl for Four years.. !! They are having sex for close to 4 years. Sex is the Farthest point.. !! If a guy is Comfortable to have sex with you then he surely ain't "i can't say, im afraid" type.. !!
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Has anyone thought of it this way- you just can't say it?
I know of this trouble, I find it very hard to say those words as it makes me very emotional and I form a lump in my throat. Sad, maybe, but true. It takes a lot out of someone to say those words and wouldn't you rather you felt it's meaning a long way down the line than it be said carelessly?
Just adding to suggestion, could be all wrong in this case.
Talk to him about it.
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (2 January 2009):
Hey Crazykit ,
My Bad.. !! I should have said "Most Women" not "all women" .. !! Exceptions are always there.. !! But it is a widely known fact that Women are much more emotionally involved in Sex.. !! A guy at 16 can have sex with any girl walking on the road.. !! Not the same for girls.. !!
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): some men are brought up to not show affection verbally and it may be hard for them to say they love you... it shows a weakness kind of... BUT i'm not saying there may be something else behind that reason
but hey you know ask him u have evry right to an honest answer
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (2 January 2009):
stop having sex,and see what will happen
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (2 January 2009):
Actually "Girls" and "Boys" are completely different when it comes to sex..!!
A guy can have sex with 5 grls and not Feel a thing for them. Girls get emotionally attached and start to have a feeling for the guy she has sex with.. !!
So, the answer is YES a guy can have sex for 4 years and still not love you.. !!
Answering your ACTUAL Post,
A Guy who loves you "Truly" will eventually tell you that he loves you. He hasn't said anything for 4 years after having sex means he is not interested in that sense..!!
By The Way.. If i may mention, It is actually "Gross" to have sex Without love and i am surprised you are having sex for 4 years with a man who does not love you.
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan a guy love crazy sex and not the woman who does it with him?-Not trying to be funny...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Have you ever thought he might be confused between "I love you" and "I love crazy sex"?
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