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writes:Hello aunties, Hope you doing fine. Well I am a 28 year old man, I have had a few failures in my life; been an average student; working in a gas station, put petrol in people's cars, although an MBA by qualification.. as I am looking for job, couldn't get one, so to survive I work in gas station.. it's been a humilating time..I am fat, hairy and getting old.. but I never had a girlfriend yet.. some say my looks are bad, some say I am shy.. rest have their own reasons..I often wonder why this happens, I mean is it wrong that I am 28, still single.. I am a good natured guy, but maybe that's not enough..Just wanted to share my problem with someone,so I wrote to you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): "I am fat, hairy and getting old"
If you want to make a change to your lifestyle then try looking at improving physically. Get to a gym (or work out at home), change your diet, sort out the excess hair, buy some new clothes for your new body (you don't need to spend a fortune to get some good quality clothes) and before long you'll be looking a fitter, better looking, younger version of yourself.
Although women are probably less judgemental when it comes to looks than men are, it is still looks that will initially catch a woman's eye and get your proverbial foot in the door.
Think of it this way, if you look fantastic, it attracts a girls attention and then they also find out that you are a good guy. You'll suddenly feel much more in demand, I'm sure. Taking care of your looks will also boost your confidence and 6 or 12 months in the future, you'll look back on this question and realise how bad you were back then and how much different you are.
You're only 28 - such a great age, don't waste it being overweight, shy, un-confident and like you aren't making the most of life. Make the decision to make some changes, you can do it:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): If you're fat just work out and go to the gym. That's the least you can do. People think it's difficult when it actually isn't. Exercise gets easier the more you do it and it's worth it. If you can't afford to go gym, do it at home.
A well looked after body with good hygiene are valuable aspects to a man.
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reader, Lorenzo  +, writes (28 November 2008):
dude get over yourself why do you care what other people think. You are You and besides there is a pretty young lady waiting for you somewhere you just have to learn to be patient.
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