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Why ask? What does it mean when a guy asks me 'what does love mean for you? How to reply to that?

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Question - (13 March 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ikayla5170 writes:

What does it mean when a guy asks me 'what does love mean for you?'.

He asked me was in the middle of our conversation, and i was pretty much surprised and thought, why would he ask me about a thing like this?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (13 March 2016):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you were talking about bicycle maintenance, and out of the blue, he asked the question “what does love mean for you?”... well, then he’s got something besides bicycles on his mind.

If you were talking about playing tennis, and he was a novice tennis player and asked the same question, well, then we have a different option.

If you were talking about dating, and romantic things in general, then there’s yet another possibility.

Is this a written conversation over text, a phone conversation or a conversation in person?

We’d need the context really, to be able to offer an opinion.

I’d say that the most natural way to respond to that question is to ask him why he asked that question.

If you’re doing a lot of texting and this in the middle of a text convo then reply, “why do you ask?”

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (13 March 2016):

Honeypie agony auntCuriosity. Or to come off as a "deep thinker". Maybe you use the word LOVE a lot when you talk, so it goes back to curiosity.

I think it's east to give a general definition of love that more or less everyone can agree on, but a personal one might vary a bit.

I don't think there is a right or wrong answer that you can give to him or anyone else.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2016):

i would say the truth tell him how you feel about love and the most importanat thing is not to lie about it

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