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writes:Why is it that one cannot forget one's first relationship? I am right now experiencing this similar mode in my life....Its almost 3 and a half months since my breakup but still i cannot forget him . he's always on my mind 24x7...Everytime i try forgetting him... an inner voice keeps reminding me of him...and time we had together...my cosyness with him...and many more things..!! I try keeping myself busy..recently he had texted me {2 days back}...i know 2 of his friends and i usually message them...they too message me...his best friend is my close friend too...last night he was texting me from his friend's cell...later he texted me telling he has now come to know that i'm a flirt...trust me people i'm not..is just asking someone how are you? and asking about one's breakup called flirting?? He used to misunderstand even before we broke up ...!! I told him not to message me and stop *bugging my life* b'cause i want to forget him and start a new life.... I don't know if i still like him....!!How do i move on in life?? i feel my life is spoilt....there's no-one who loves me...i'm in new atmosphere now...new people...new customs...but cannot forget him...what do i do?? I feel like there's no love written in my life.........!!how do i live alone...i feel like having someone in my life but i can't...why am i so unlucky in life?
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reader, mcbirdie  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Three and a half months is not any length of time when it comes to moving on from a breakup. It's a process and some days will be better than others, but eventually, you'll suddenly realize that you've gone more days without thinking about him than you ever thought possible.
Your life is definitely not spoiled--far from it. You just need to allow yourself time to get over liking someone and being disappointed that it didn't work out. Keep yourself busy meeting all those new people and getting used to that new atmosphere and soon enough you'll find yourself surprised by love coming to find you.
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): This isn't really advice.....more like a hug and support, but we've all been there and we've all got through it ok.
Maybe try to keep away from him and his mates for a bit (including the texts)
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