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writes:I am suffering from premature ejaculation and because of this ,I cannot satisfy my wife. So she wants to go out and have sex with someone else to get satisfied. Is that an alternative?
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reader, gmoney +, writes (10 August 2008):
No that is not an alternative. If she is your wife she has to work with you, your not even getting a full experiencet. Try yohimbe you can get it from GNC, wallgreens, whole foods or health store and take a couple eye drop fulls. I would suggest trying to have sex more often and do the kegal exercise. And even sex therapy. She just has to work with you til death do you part.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008):
In my opinion; for her to have an affair is not an alternative;
However, there are many ways that you can satisfy your wife and there are ways to alleviate the problem of premature ejaculation;
Techniques for solving the problem of premajure ejaculation involve the full cooperation of the woman as wll as the man.
There are many exercises, steps and methods BUT the most well known procedure developed by Masters and Johnson, known as the SQUEEZE TECHNIQUE; is designed to re-train the brain to controll ejaculatory reflex. This technique is often recommended by sextherapists for premature ejaculation with very good results.
I suggest you do try it and if need be get the help of a therapist;
There is lots that can be done to overcome your problem, rahter then for her to have an affair;
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 her going to another guy will only make things a hundred times worse. you need to go see your gp see if their is something causing the problem. try some techniques try masturbating then when your close just stop. wait a few minutes then go again and keep doing this each time you masturbate see if this helps to length the time. as lex says buy some sex toys and what not. but adding another man into the equasion could makes things go wrong you need to fix the problem. good luck aphex xx
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reader, lexilou +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Have you been to the doctors to see if they can do anything?
If you have and they cant then there are lots of other ways you can satisfy her, with your hands, tongue, sex toys etc. Or she can satisfy herself, surely you dont want her to resort to having an affair x
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