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writes:It's crazy, but how can I lighten up around the girl I really like? It seems whenever I'm around her I just transform into some miserable boring git and not my usual self.It's so frustrating!Why can't I be my normal self? Any advice?? Reply to this Question
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reader, lanaguy  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Dude u need to just loosen up a bit and relax around her,maby if u act like this then u could push her away from u and im sure u don't want that,when u see her is it just u and her or is it with friends? If its just u and her then maybe u should try seeing her with ur friends and a couple of her friends then maybe it might break the ice then once u feel comfortable with her u can see her by yourself..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): well u gotta be cool when your around her dnt be miserable your darkening up the scene make her laugh talk to her but anything that fascinates her dont be aggresive but be smooth watch what you wear comb your hair spray cologne look fresh when your around her to gain confidence in yourself getting a gil you like is harder than getting one you dont like so just be careful bout what you say but at the same time look at her like a friend then spit your game mix it...alright just be calm!!! try your luck now
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): I tend to find out her MSN and then talk to her through that. That way you can think before you do, you don't have to show your face and you can learn to be more comfortable around her and get to know each other better.
Do you have anything to be miserable about?! Maybe your just worried or jealous about something?! I dunno I'm just guessing?!
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