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26-29,
*oblondie1
writes:Okay so my problem is kinda weird. I have no problem getting guys, a lot of guys really do like me but what we do is just hook up. I've only had one boyfriend and that was a very long time ago. Everytime a guy asks me to be his girl i cant run away fast enough and i really don't know why! I get so scared of having a boyfriend. Maybe its because im shy or something but the thing is im never usually shy im always the outgoing one. I don't know why im so afraid of having a boyfriend. This boy asked me out a couple of days ago and i kinda brushed him away, now whenever i see him in the halls i try to not even make eye contact with him.... HELP?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): I agree. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. I know it seems like everyone else has a boyfriend right now, but in the grand scheme of things you are so young to be worrying about that right now. If you like a guy enough, then you will be able to say yes when he asks you out. If not, it can wait. In the meantime, get good grades and have lots of fun with your friends. :)
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reader, CandyCurves  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 Hahaha, Im exactly the same.
It's because we're not ready for boyfriends/relationships/committment ect .. I dont know. Im just as confused as you! Sorry I know this wasnt exactly helpful.The thing is we're not matured enough, we need to wait a little longer to see how we feel about boys. I know what youre going through. I proper liked this guy and when he asked me out I freaked! havent talked to him since
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