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*nadin
writes:Hi guys, I have connected with a girl i met through scouts network (18-25 portion)shes 19 and really intelligent, clever, into similar stuff to me. iv known her for about 2 months now. I only really started talking to her when i said i would fix her car for her and we learned about eachother from therethis weekend we went on a couple of dates. i took her to view my workplace, which has to do with her studies in chemistry - she really enjoyed it and we connected there. it was unexpected, by both of us. i took her for a coffee afterwards and she accidentaly left her bag there. we got home and i had to drop her round to her house because her car keys where in the bag. the next day i fixed her car for her like i had promised and while i was at it, i also fetched her bag for her. she came round and spent about an hour with me and went home. we agreed to see a movie and i cooked her a meal, we snuggled for about half an hour before we went to the movie on saturday, yesterday we where talking and she text me something totally left wing -"do you think its cool if you didnt mention our dates to X at your network section, its just that he's asked me out on a date a while ago, at the time i said yes, but he hasnt mentioned it since, so im guessing he fergot about it. i dont want to upset him/annoy him x"i replied with:"its his loss, you are a wonderful girl, i wont mention it for you but it sounds like he's none too bothered if he hasnt chased up about it, or is he still waiting for your reply? x"no text since. i guess its her way of trying to get me to loose interest and she dosent know how to say no? why do i feel hurt? and get fairly hung up on this? i liked the girl very much but surely i would not feel this way after just 2 dates and a "maybe" to the thirdwhere have i gone wrong, and should i move on, how do i stop myself getting hung up about it or how do i proceed atleast?
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reader, Anadin +, writes (18 May 2011):
Anadin is verified as being by the original poster of the question i got a text earlier :( - "look I've been thinking about exams and uni and stuff and atm i really don't think i have the time to see you its just that these exams are really really important and i can't let myself get distracted, plus i have 2 jobs, cubs network riding and its just really bad timing. I'm really sorry that I've lead you on cos you're a really nice guy its just not gonna work out this time, I'm so sorry x"
I thanked her for her honesty and just spoke to her as a friend :l really bummed though
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