A
female
age
41-50,
*taryeyes
writes: HiI have a very depressing problem! I recently got divorced which was my own doing. I didn't want to be with my x husband due to various reasons. Now its over. The problem starts from here. Now i lost interest in everything. I have started my pHd which seems really boring. Anything i start it gets really boring after a while. i can't even pray. What is going on with me. Further more i wanted to get married but the moment anyone approaches me i get really angry and want to run away. I am irrated all the time and i am thinking of leaving the PHD because it seems very difficult and boring. I think i am going crazy. Please help me!!! What should i do. I used to pray to Allah a lot and now i can't seem to even do that as well!!! Help someone HELP!!! SOS
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (9 July 2010):
Hun, sounds like you might be suffering from depression. Please go and speak to your doctor.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (9 July 2010):
You sound a little depressed. It happens often after divorce, whether you wanted things to end or not.
Unfortunately when you divorce someone, you lose the bad things but also anything good you enjoyed from the marriage. This can leave a bit of a hole in your life.
You just need to give yourself more time until your mind settles and you can think clearly. Getting over divorce is like recovering from illness, you have to be kind to yourself and soon your vitality will return.
If you feel yourself sinking further into depression you should go and talk to your doctor.
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