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writes: Hi everyone and thanxs for any help. Let me start at the beginning I go to school with this amazing guy who asked me out after a year of becomin bezzies but we broke up coz other people we'r presuring us to snog and stuff n I was realy young and dint want to I nether felt like he was presuring me coz we realy loved each other to but now I'm 18 and havent stoped thinking about him latley we got closer again and have started goin out again which I'm over joyed about! I love him and he loves me. But I'm always second to his bestfriend. Its like this his bezzie I think is awsome but everytime we'r together hes ALWAYS there we never get any alone time and are getting further apart! Its weird coz most of the time there fighting which I guess makes them the way they are but he seems to ignore me if I dont want to do what there doin like what movie to see they will gang up on me which sucks and I just feel like hes closer to him than me am I just over reacting? We kiss all the time now but have not had sex yet. He does'nt even seem intrested when his mates there but in the day a week we get to be alone together he never stops flirtin and kissing me. I'm realy confused! He acts like we did when we were little kids askin me for a bj then sayin ye bet ya wont tryin to use reverscycoligy on me [soz about spellin] but genuinely thinking I would'nt as jokeing around. Does he take me seriously as a gf? And how can I get more alone time to reconect with him if his bezzies always there?Thanxs for reading my problem plz help! =[
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. It turns out my bf woz rite coz his "bezzie" [not anymore] took me too oneside in class and started saying to me all these lies about my bf callin me a whore slag and saying that he said if I dint sleep wid him hed dump me =[!!! So I went up to my bf and of course he denied it all hes not like that! And when we asked his "bezzie" if it woz true he just walked off! Then today he acted like normal and said "Ye cant ya take a joke?" [sarcasticly] In wot way is that funny!?! He made me really deprested the hole weekend thinkin wot happens if he is just usein me? =[ Hes made up alot of shit before bt now hes gone 2far.
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reader, i think im in love :(  +, writes (7 September 2008):
 Oh dear yuu poor girll yuuu got yuurself in a propa bad situation!!!
Welll tbh with yuu babe yuuur bf sud not let him b with yuu allll the tym end of relli yuuu need alone tym otherwise its just mre like yuuu 3 are alll just mates not bf and gf !!! Hope yuu sort it pout :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I hav'nt but today I was talking to my bf and he sed hes starting to anoy him coz he thinks he fances me! And aparently so do our friends I just laughed and sed he woz bein stupid. [his bezzie already has a gf but they hav a long distance relationship] But wot woz even weirder is today we were hanging out lituraly we went rockclimin [we never hav a boaring day] when I got the impreshion he woz rite! But his bezzie just denise it. Do ya think my bf is rite? Now Im realy confused!
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reader, i think im in love :( +, writes (2 September 2008):
Awwww hunni sorry to hear that =[ I know its really hard int it :( well babe have yuu spoken to him ??? If not i think yuu need to tell him how yuu feel and its startin to upset yuu yuu kno wat i mean :(x
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