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writes:Lately I have been rude to my mom, and like not rude to my dad and everything.. But it just started happening. And all my friends have been asking me why I am so rude to my mom, and I don't know why..It just started happening.And i don't know why?.Can you please give me some suggestions.? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): ye, everything what lacry said, but i think the reason why youre ruder to your mom than to your dad is because, (well first im going to ask, are you closer, or spend more time with your mother?) if so.. its because when you get close to someone and someone like a mother, you will tend to be ruder to her i really don't know why, (it goes into psychology now,)
but its true,
i was like that. i love my dad, but my mother was the restrictive one but also the nice one, my dad just was the guy who provided and played the odd video game with me,
ye and just make sure, that if you realise your hurting your mother feelings, make sure you let her know that youre sorry,
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Maybe because you're a teenager and have all these hormones flying around, you tend to get angry easily and fly off the handle a lot. Your mother may be doing little things that are just magnified because of the way you're perceiving things.. and perhaps you're not rude to your dad because you feel you can't get away with it with him, but your mum let's things go easily. When I was about 13-15 I used to have anger issues! And I would be rude to my mum as well. It's natural, but it's not nice. Try to keep a hold on your anger. And think twice before you act or speak... keep in mind then when you are rude to your mum you're hurting her, and she most likely does not deserve it. Plus, it'll make you come across as a rude, selfish and spoiled person, if you speak to your mother that way. Your friends have already noticed.Apologise to your mother and tell her you don't know why you act the way you do, but you're going to try really hard to not be that way anymore. You can stop being rude, it'll just take some willpower! And some consideration for other people's feelings.
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