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*azelex
writes:hi! i have a serious relationship and I'm always jealous. i think I've been jealous for almost all the girls we know. please help. sometimes it is because i see in his actions towards other girls that he's sweet and i get jealous. am i wrong or I'm feeling it because it is true? i love him/ he loves me. but why like this? help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): hey babe
i know what you mean, i feel the same sometimes. its just one of those things i think - you know, when you you have found someone that treats you how you have always wanted to be treated - your scared of loosing it. but, the truth of the story is, he does love you, or you wouldnt be the one that he chooses to be with. try to be careful what you say because of your jelousy and how you act - coz you may find yourself pushing him slowly, but surely away.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): Ok hey i know exactly how ya feel. My boyfriend is a big jealousy factor to me. i am so jealous of any girl that looks at him and he looks back. the way i keep my cool about it though is to realize if he wanted those other girls he would not be with you so that makes me feel better always just be trusting in him and your relationship will be so much stronger.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 Jealousy is a natural reaction to your feelings for your fella. But you need to learn to control these feelings, otherwise they will affect everything that you hold dear.
Remember he has chosen you and he is with you..Not with anyone else, and it sounds like you trust him and there is no real reason for your jealousy. Think about these positive reasons why he is with you and dont focus on the negative all the time.
If you want this to work, then you WILL have to let go of this overwhelming feeling and keep it in check.
R
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reader, kenny +, writes (13 May 2007):
 you have got to stop these acts of jealousy, otherwise you risk pushing your boyfriend away. He sounds like a nice guy, and is just being friendly to everyone, don't make his actions into something that they are not. He is with you, you love him, he loves you, so try to keep it that way and stop being jealous.
Good luck x
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