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Why the dismissive attitude?

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Question - (26 January 2023) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *riaz writes:

I met this amazing guy while on vacation a few months back,and we decided to give things a try. We've been going on trips together, because that's the only way we can see each other. We live in adjacent states.

He scored us a free trip and show but wants me to plan everything. He has absolutely no input into what we should do and wants me to pick everything. I told him i really need his input, because i dont want to pick domething he doesnt like. He's on vacation but wants to focus on his vacation. He's at a car show in Arizona for the week. He's pawning off all the planning to me. Meanwhile I'm still working, and it's been a rough week. I got a little upset with him and gave him a little attitude.

I texted him a few days later and told him that I appreciate that he got us the trip, but I don't want to be the one to decide everything. If/when he's ready to plan with me to let me know. He said he'll hit me up next week.

Am I overreacting? His dismissive attitude makes me think he doesn't care, and if that's the case, why even glsecure the trip?

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