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Who should I trust in this situation?

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Question - (20 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *ittbullsathome writes:

so i hav known this guys 4 almost 4 years now an his mom longer neway we ran back n2 each other last april we started datin caught up where our friendship left off an started makin plans i moved n w/him an his mom we bought a motorcycle everythin was great his friends love me his mom loves me every1an vica versa he told his mom im gonna mary her sum day his mom said i kinda figured lol well things were perfect then all of a sudden on july 5 he turned a complete 360 jeckel hide thing broke up w/me kicked me out w/nowhere 2 go i stayed in a hotel that Nit he brought me the rest of my clothes an he was cryin he was the 1st 2 say i love u witch shocked me but he was crying an wouldn't talk just had to get back home the next day i text him an asked if he was ok cause i seen him cryin he said no i told him talk 2 me tell me what's up he said his mom wanted her house back the way it was an knowin we didn't hav all the money 4 a place yet he broke up w/me so i could do better on my own i told him i was far from better well the next month was rocky i moved from friend 2 friend an still cn each other his mom kicked him out cause she wanted everythin 2 her 4 1c by then it was week 3 i found a place he started stay w/me all the while always sayin we weren't 2gether but neither of us were messin w/ne1 but eachother well ended up losin the apt cause we both lost our jobs due 2 cuts we started stayin at his moms well he started stayin else where sayin its cause him an his mom fight 2 much an he can't handle it an they do fight Alot his mom is a over the top person so i been here an he comes an stays every now an then checks on me well the past few weeks he has started movin his stuff back here from all the places he has stayed an talkin bout movin out of st an i want 2 i can't wait 2 leav but 1 thing that's been buggin me is this chick that he talks 2 she has called him baby sayin please come home an cuddle but he says he ain't w/no1 an he ain't slept w/ne1 part says trust like b4 an the other says he is lien what do i trust?

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A female reader, Entirely Unique United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2010):

Entirely Unique agony auntI would say follow your gut feeling.

I don't understand how if he loves you and he's not with anyone else why you aren't back together.

I would have to find out whats really going on with him because its not really fair on you waiting around for him to decide he wants to be with you again when that might never happen.

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