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writes:alright so i have been on here in a while so i have one huge question .... about a week ago my bf was gone for a week and he barely calld me he called me probably twice a day and when he came back thngs were fine we had a great time i made him birthday dinner and a cake and we watched one of his favorite movies it was a great night thn the day after he went out again 2 drink it made me feel worthless like im nothing to him that night i hung out with one of his best friends gf and she hangs out w/ my bf when he tells me that his friends mom doesnt want couples there BS anyways that morning she told me that the whole week he was gone he cheated on me everyday with a different girl it pissed me off i talkd 2 him bf i accused him he said no im the only 1 that he would evr love or do nethng with he wouldnt do that with another girl he started crying ive been thinking about it since then and i dnt kno what to believe can some one please put my mind at rest thanks so much i need help who should i believe?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 No, its sweet and the right thing to do not an indication he's cheating. So your friend does have her own agenda. My advice; ignore her unless there are hard facts.
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (9 August 2008):
mattie90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well he told me tht the reason y she told me this is because her bf and my bf almost got into a fight the night before she told me that he was cheating because her bf got kickd in the crotch n thn pissed on himself bc my bf smackd his hand while he was pissing and im believe thats why she told me this and shes never liked him to begin with she has told me that bc everytime she has been around him hes a complete and total ass but whn hes around me hes the sweetest guy ever he treats me with the most respect not even my mom treats me with this much respect he has even told me that he wants me and only me to have his kids which i am im pregnant and ever since i told him hes been super overprotective hes telling me what to eat n drink and stuff like that he only wants the best for me and his child i also smoke and so does he and hes been makin changes in his life so it doesnt affect the baby and me hes doin all of ths so i dnt lose another baby is ths also weird tht hes doin this
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reader, lexilou +, writes (9 August 2008):
 So he cheated on you with a different girl every day?? That sounds highly unlikely, what is he a super stud that girls cant resist so they throw themselves at his feet!!!! I think she is telling you lies and you shouldnt let her split you up x
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (9 August 2008):
Does your friend have any hard evidence?? I would be a bit weary of just taking her word for it even though she is your friend...she may have other agendas...maybe she doesnt like the guy or something like that?? Where had he 'gone'?? Just off the radar or away on holiday or something like that?? Not contacting you doesnt in and of itself prove guilt.
Regardless of who you instinctivly believe i would confront your bf with this to clear the air; tell him exactly what has been said and ask him straight out if it is true and watch his reaction. You will be able to guage from that much better what may or may not be going on.
I think you already know something is up and you really do need to clear the air. It may be that your bf is just being withdrawn. Good luck.
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