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writes:Hi, to make along story short i had a date with i guy a few days ago. We used to work together years ago but i havent seen him since until then. I'm not all that good with dating etiquette so i dont know if i should be the first to talk to him after or if i should wait for him to make the first move to see if he's actually interested?any thoughts??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): thank you all for your advise! as sad as it is it makes perfect sense and i hope you be glad to know that he called and we now have a second date.
thank you all so much! you guys are always awesome!! : )
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (11 January 2010):
 In the end it shouldn't matter that much who makes the first move after a date, but I've always found that if you wait and let the guy ask you on a second date you will be in a better position to know just how interested he is.
You can always send him a small text or something to thank him for the date but I wouldn't do more than that. If he is interested in seeing you again, he will let you know.
There may be shy guys out there and all that, but if he wasn't shy enough to go on one date with you, he definitely won't be shy to ask you out again if he really wants to.
So sit back, and let him come to you. If he doesn't? Well, he's not that keen and you start looking for someone else.
Good luck!
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