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41-50,
*boyd26
writes:I started seeing my current boyfriend right after my last relationship ended (within a few weeks). The prior BF and I had been together for 5 years. Our relationship ended due to distance. However, I now live and completely have a life with my new BF. But recently I came back into contact with my EX. And I guess I'm not sure what to do.. I mean they both have their pro's and con's. But no relationship could ever compare to the one I shared with my EX. It was just absolutely amazing. And the current BF takes great care of me, he is one of those good guys. And my parents love him. But I feel wrong leaving my current BF. Someone please help me..... soon...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): hi.You already have made your choice.You chose to end it with the X.Apparently you were quite happy in your life until he popped up. Your with a good guy now who IS available,hes right there at home with you. Dont romanticize about your X, I bet it wasnt all that great, not what you have now. Wouldnt it be a better world if people actually ruled out the X option and loved the one they are with.How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot and your boyfriend was tossing up between you and his X.How valuable would that make you feel.I think that people should get over their X before they start another relationship and stop playing with good peoples hearts.
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reader, MissE--x  +, writes (20 August 2007):
 so by leaving your currrent bf who gvies you everyhting u need you think lifes guna be even better with the ex of urs who u hardly eva see distance) ... yes youve come in contact with him and yes hes great wen he wants to be and has his pros and cons but if distance was a problem for 5 yrs wat makes you think its going to be better now ?
i would not risk losing ur hosue and etc with this great lad you have now for something which cud turn out to be a disater once gain ! ... no need for heartbreak when you got someone whos willing to give you there heart already ! stick with him girl !
good luck
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (20 August 2007):
 ok there was a reason why you lift your ex boyfriend. i think you should stay with your current boyfriend because he seems like a nice guy. but if you feel that there is still something there talk to both your ex and your boyfriend tell them you like them both, so you will go on serveal dates with them and see which one makes you smile, makes you get up in the morning, makes your heart skip a beat.
good luck
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