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writes:Me and this this guy been together for two years. I love him and he tells me he loves me but we had a big fall out because he drinks and when he drinks he doesn't know how to handle himself. So I put him out. Then two weeks later we got back together and now I am mad because he started talking to this older female. She is trying to buy$ him into her life. He told her in front of me while on the phone she got him he didn't want to be with her any more but she keeps calling him he asked her if she wants the phone back she said no and she told him she will still pay the bill I need help because I love him but I think he is still talking to this female when I am not around because she keeps calling and he keep telling he wants me not her help please!!!!!!!!!
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reader, love-him  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 You need to realy sit down with him and ask him whats goin on. If he stil lets her do it, then your better off with out him babe. I hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x
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reader, LauraE +, writes (11 July 2007):
You need to ask him to make a choice. If she wants to keep paying the bill, then she hopes to be with him. She wouldn’t pay the phone bill of an ex would she? If he lets her do this, then he is either cynically taking advantage of a woman’s affection for him, or he is also interested in her. So either way, this isn’t right. Tell him this. Ask him if he would be happy about you accepting gifts from a man that made it clear he wanted you as more than a friend. Tell him that he has to stop all contact with this woman if he wants to be with you. That includes her paying any bills for him.
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