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writes:I am confused between 2 guys... I am in relationship wit a guy since 1.5 yrs. He is handsome, good, smart, loving and caring. He always keeps me happy. But the thing is he is too emotional that some times irritates me. And many times he has forced me for intercourse with him, for which i have always denied. But he still loves me and dreams always about our future... He is really crazy about me and ready to do anything for me.. And the other guy proposed me after i got committed with a 1st guy. He is not as handsome as 1st one.. Bt really a best one. He is lil flirty but really good from his heart. Even though knowing that i don't love him he has never stopped me from loving. Even hes too crazy and ready to do anything for me.. Apart from that he is really my best friend. He always makes me laugh.. So plz suggest me who is the best one for me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): thanx all for ur valuable suggestions :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2012): "And many times he has forced me for intercourse with him, for which i have always denied."
OP clarify something please, have you had sex with him or not? This is open to misinterpretation but I'm pretty sure you mean he's been pressuring you for sex and you've always told him no but you need to clarify that point.
Well OP it sounds like neither of them are best for you OP, you think the first guy is an emotional, annoying sap and you don't love the second one nor think he's that handsome.
It sounds to me like you don't love either of them, so the choice isn't really between the two of them unless you plan on settling down with them just for shits and giggles.
Don't you want a man who you can love, who doesn't annoy you, who isn't too emotional, who is handsome?
There are millions of men in India, your choice isn't solely between these two and frankly it probably wouldn't be the best idea of settling for either of them seeing as you don't love either of them completely.
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reader, 0Guest0 +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Its you who have to decide who you love. Who do you love? the first one or second guy? You said you don't like when first guy gets emotional but apart from it your relationship with first guy sounds good. No-one is perfect. You don't love someone who is perfect. True love is when you see imperfect person perfect. Did the first guy tried to touch you without your will? Did he ever force you? It's wrong to force a woman and get sexual against her will, it shows that he disrespect you. The second one sounds good too but you have to decide who you love. Be with someone who respects you and love you.
Good luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Well as for your current boyfriend you describe this relationship to be perfect except for he is emotional, there is nothing wrong with being emotional and even though this quality might irritate you, it really is superficial. As for him forcing you in to intercourse though is a complete different story, this is sexual abuse and it should not be accepted. If he has intercourse with you against your will then that is him raping you and you should not be in a relationship with someone who is capable of forcing themselves on to women. My suggestion would be to report him and to get out of this relationship and that has nothing to do with the other guy.
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