A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Please help i'm at uni right and theres these two guys, both of whom are like so lovely only 1's totally out of my leauge and the other kinda had a crush on me a while back, anyhow i lost my virginity to the second guy and kinda ignored the fact i liked him all last year cause i'm an idiot and a little naive, now he's keen on me again but i'm thinking i'm actually hot for the other guy (the good loking one) but the guy who's keen does make my tummy flip am i just being terrified of letting myself be with him or should i hold out for his mate? i hate this i'm not from the country i study in and maybe i'm reading things wrong. Much help would be loved
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Hi,
It all depends, do you like the idea of a bit of eye candy and having the guy on your arm who everyone fancies?
Or do you want the guy who makes your stomach churn.
Boy, if you cant make up your mind now, I suggest go with the flow, as I'm sure 99.9999% of people will say the guy who makes your stomach churn. But your young, and we all experiment at your age, so I'm not going to say that you should go with either . But try and look at it logically.
First, the good looking bloke may be the most shallow insensitive arsehole in the whole world, but because he's good looking this suddenly makes him out of your league?
I think you look at these things the wrong way. The guy who makes your stomach churn is connecting with you, there's something about him which makes you feel different.
The good looking guy may be attractive, but if there's no sexual chemistry then what's the point?
If you are a person who is only concerned with having an attractive person to display to your friends, then by all means go for the good looking bloke.
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