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writes:I'm kind of down on my luck right now and I've kind of got a situation. I can't decide to try to rekindle a spark in a friend or just move on with someone else. Here is my scenario:Girl #1. I went to high school with her. We were pretty good friends but we never did begin dating. Mainly because everytime I tried to ask I would get blown off. I don't really see her that much around the campus. Should I try again? Maybe things are different, or should I move on?Girl #2. I remember her form high school but I didn't really know her that well. We share a statistics class together and lately I've seen her stealing glances at me. Is she interested in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): Well, you got "blown off" by girl #1 in high school. Maybe she had something for another guy at the time. Maybe she no longer has. You can always try again. You are on new turf now. But, if it is still the same old brush off, drop it and get re-aquainted with girl #2. You already have a few things in common,..you went to high school together. Maybe she is wondering why you don't strike up a conversation..(?) Well, why haven't you? Pardon me if I'm wrong, but you sound like you may be the type of guy who needs a girl to make the first move, or at least be "sure" she would be accepting if you approached her. Being a guy is not easy in this game, anon. You are really the one who is expected to stick your neck out. But, at least #2 has given you some signals. It is now up to you. What have you got to lose, anyway? Even if neither of these two "work out", there are still probably several hundred (thousand) others pretty near and available....That is one thing about girls,..there is no dearth of them. You can always be choosy,..just don't make a habit of being "too choosy". It is sort of like an ice-cream party,..you have a lot of choices, but if you are too slow to make your choice, it may all be gone before you know it.
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