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Where will my life's big changes lead me?

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Question - (12 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi Everyone,

Ok..so here goes.

I am at a point in my life where i really don't know where i'm going. My job will be coming to an end early next year and i can't decide what i am going to do next? Plus, i wrote on here a few months ago about a man i couldn't stop thinking about, and was advised to try my hardest to forget about him and avoid him....well i tried that and the feelings are STILL there, it's really hard. I am wondering if i should move away for a while to get away from everything or is that just running from problems that will still be there when i get back? I am so utterly confused, and feel really depressed quite frequently, i just want to be happy. Any advice? Thank you for your replies xx

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

dearkelja agony auntLook upon your life changes as a new beginning. If you are not tied down in this area, you might want to try some new surroundings. Sometimes just moving away from your problems will help you see thing more clearly. Granted, your problems will still be there for you to deal with but you might have a new perspective and some strength from your new surroundings. Take a much needed break and take care of you!

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A male reader, Dazzerg United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

Dazzerg agony auntI don't think there is anything wrong with taking a break and taking a step-back for a little while especially if things are getting so on-top of you. It is probably a good idea as it will allow you to clear your head and chart a course through these changes away from the day-to-day pressures of living which are probably hard to bear ontop of all this.

Of course the problems will still be there but hopefully you will be able to much better deal with them. Good luck :).

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