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writes: Hi, i live in nw england and i`m having an affair with a lovely woman, trouble is where can we sleep together during the day i`m fed up with quickies in the car, any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2006): You clearly posed a question just to gloat, which I find sickening. To truly believe that a full grown male cannot think of places to fornicate is uncomprehensible. Both your partner and your lovely lady deserve much better.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (29 March 2006):
 *were can we sleep together during the day* pretty good assumptions can be made about this wouldn't you say tux? Think about it, why wouldn't he just go home if this is his girlfriend and not his *bit on the side*. I am pretty sure that the majority of people on here are assuming correctly that this is an illicit relationship. *quickies in the car* during the day....why be so uncomfortable?
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reader, tux  +, writes (29 March 2006):
 I'd like to hear and see if these assumptions that he is cheating.. and more so that he has a wife is true.. If he doesn't respond back and deny that it is then I would have to say most definately thats the case.. but he may not have a wife but a girlfriend and we are thinking the worst. If it is what the assumption leads to as I have said, he's a major league jerk and needs to get a quick kick to his thinking cap. If you are cheating, there is no proper place at all to have an affair with someone whether or not your are a gentleman or not. You need to end either one or both.. and come clean about it. It's unfair to everyone involved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2006): i hate men like you, i agree with willwombat tell your wife, she deserves so much better, your so pathetic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): This a pathetic question to ask.You have a wife!But you ask for advice so why not try getting an hotel somewere out of the way and tell your wife it's over and do a decent thing for her.
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reader, tux +, writes (28 March 2006):
It's funny how fast people assume :) Though by what hs been said i'd problaly assume he's cheating as well, but he never did say so.. an affair does not necessarily mean it's a cheating affair.
Here is what Dictionary.com has for affair.
Affair: A romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other.
Mistress: Used formerly as a courtesy title when speaking to or of a woman.
So he merely may just be having a sexual relationship with a lady but cant do it at their own place for other reasons like parents or something like that..
But most likely I would say it's a cheating affair, in which I would say.. Perhaps you shouldnt be looking even for a quickie in the car to begin with. Why do people always have to ruin what they already have and if it's not good why do they stay?
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reader, Holly1 +, writes (28 March 2006):
Did you read what you wrote before sending in your 'probem.' The only thing i can say is a 'real' gentleman doesn't have a mistress!!
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reader, willywombat +, writes (28 March 2006):
Do you know I am suprised you have the effrontary to ask a question like this. Get a room. Get a life. Give your poor wife back her dignity by telling her what a cheap low-life scum you really are!!!!
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reader, shania +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Ha ha!....i had to laugh at this problem because you sent it in without any guilt on what you were saying.Now i wont preach to you about the rights or wrongs on having an affair because you two are grown up adults and thats the choices you are making together,whether its right or wrong is another thing.Haven't you heard of hotel rooms?...or bed and breakfast?...i will say though,if your fed up with quickies in your car then you should ask yourself if for just a quick thrill...is it worth jeopardising your marriage for?
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reader, karli +, writes (28 March 2006):
Yes ive got a sugestion.................grow up!!!!If your having an affair then you obviously dont love your partener very much or respect her.If this woman is so lovely then do the decent thing and leave your poor partener and let her get on with the rest of her life or leave this 'lovely woman'...You cant have your cake and eat it...its not fair on the others involved.
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