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30-35,
*heekymonky
writes:Okay guys well here's my question. I have a range of medical problems - ADHD ect and like I went through life and people supported me and I got to secondary school and I was severely bullied and in some cases I faced abuse. What upsets me the most was I thought one person cared and that I had felt what it feels like to be loved - but it didn't go that way and so that was really upsetting. I got the grades I needed to get out and I went to college and the unfaithfulness I faced, one of my teachers keeps going on about my problems and treats me like I'm a different species, other teachers say I'm lovely and like a people person and I haven't got any of these problems, well the college didn't support me, again I was bullied and like I thought of ending all of it. Then I had a few days of and realise the beauty of life and thought I want my life back, I want to do well, I want relationships, my question is where do I start?
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reader, shiraz +, writes (30 November 2008):
hiyah, your on the right track to getting what it is you want, a normal life but i think you should start by supporting yourself more. make yourself personal goals and count them off as you achieve them. i know it can be patronising when someone treats you like a child but i think they have your best interests at heart but if its getting to you then just simply mention it to them, your trying to become this strong, new, independent person but your finding the way they treat you a strugle to break free from.When you feel yourself falling that low that you want to end it again you really have to wake up and ask yourself is my future life worth throwing away? dont focus on the has beens, the past the future is what you need and you need to build it up yourself, your way. making mistakes along the way, nobodys perfect. dont doubt yourself so much things get better and it seems youve tackled wose, it seems like such a huge step but once your there its a different life and you can finally enjoy being who you are.you are doing well by gettin the grades you wantd so your in a good position career wise which is something you should be proud of its going to be one of the main parts of your life, your carrer. relationships will come eventually but dont rush things too quickly, go out a bit more and come out of yourself show the true you, not worrying about what others might be saying your older now and its something you can tackle independently and hopefully suceed in. why not try mates beofre dates? you could find that friend for life and then move onto your relatinship side of life. its mates you need mpst right now so make that one of your goals. become you and enjoy it, you deserve it. best of luck xxx
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