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writes:I met a friend of a friend a year ago and we had a one night stand. I didn't see him for a few months, however we all began to go out as a group. Since then, everytime we have been out we have always ended up kissing and staying in each others houses after a night out, however we have never had sex since until last week and he was always more than happy to cuddle in bed. This is the first time after a year.We are both really shy when it comes to feelings and so the subject of liking each other never gets brought up. I think he is wary of anything happening because I have previously been involved with a friend (more of an aquaintance) of his before I knew him who he still regularly sees on nights out.Since the most recent time last week, I have seen him once when we have both been sober and it wasn't awkward at all, however he has been reluctant to come out on a few occasions with the group since because of the bantar our friends have been having about it. He still texts me regularly and initiates the conversations however I am not sure where I stand with him and I don't feel comfortable asking him.I would like an outsiders point of view to help me see where I stand and what I should do please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice. I've been trying to take it and just have fun for now. I've had sex with him four or five times and everything was going fine, we were still texting- not constant but enough and he always text me after I left his house or he left mine, however after he stayed at mine this weekend, I haven't heard from him since. And I feel like I might have done something wrong maybe came over a little full on or something. I don't know what to do now but it did upset me that he didn't text. Feeling a little used tbh. Do you know what he's thinking??
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