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writes:I have been keen on this woman for about 2 years now but it is steadily rising every time we meet. We are both 18 atm and went to the same High School and work at the same place (got her the job myself).So basically where I stand, she went to university while I travelled Canada, keeping in touch with her through msn. I never expressed my desire for her but I think she knows since we share most of the same friends. (she dated one of my old good friends). I recently returned to my home for New Years and threw a smashing party and invited her (for the main reason of asking her out) but i chickend out and we were both to drunk when i almost asked so its an obvi no no. Now I am back and learning shes met ppl who seem much more intune than I. Im going to uni in september but 1 hour away from where shes going so travelling isnt a problem. We both are really passionate about politics and debate all the time yet usually end up in a scream fit of objections. but all together i find her truely unique and lovely in her own way. I know for a fact I have competition but wanna give it a shot anyways. So my question is....Should I ask her to hang out first then ask her out or should I ask her on a date at work where its more friendly enviornment but not around co workers but like in the storage room or closeing(work at wendys lol) Im not gonna ask her on msn and cant really go to her house since last time her brother gave me that 'You touch my sister and I will kill you stare' So any suggestions. Thanks :)
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 January 2009):
You don't need to make it special and work your way up to it. You are not proposing marriage here.
You have her number so call her right now and ask her if she wanted to go for dinner at some point this week. You are not a little kid any more. Asking her to dinner needn't be a big scary thing that requires the stage of hanging out any more.
Once you have her on the date THAT is when you need to panic about what to say and timing. Don't forget to tell her she's beautiful!
Good Luck!! xx
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