Where do I draw the line with her new friendship with this guy?

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years, and everything is going well. We are practically open with each other, and basically "loyal" to each other. We are open in meeting ex's, old crushes as long as we tell each other, just to say our heart is clear and honest about being friends with old lovers. Recently though im kind of concerned because she met this guy who's from another country and he is asking her for a "friendly dinner". My girl, as open as she is, told me about it and i said its o.k. as long as you guys are cool friends {maybe he wanted some new friends to hang out with}. I just reminded her to try to draw the line of friendship. But recently, i have this gut feeling that something is going on; she keeps her phone close, and stays on-line longer than usual. i accidentally saw the guy's name on her txt msg and she suddenly erased it! One time she forgot to log out from the computer so i saw that they are actually sending msgs, like i miss ur smile, hugs, want to have breakfast, maybe lunch?, etc... To cut it short, im not sure if it is just a friendly out or more than that...i don't know if i should ask my girl about it or not since the guys will just be leaving the country for couple of months time...

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