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writes: I'm looking to find someone I can have a long term relationship and I'm starting college in the fall, but I don't want to spend the summer alone. How do I find guys? I know I can't make love happen, but where should I start so that I can at least attempt to meet new people?thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, miss_nice2006 +, writes (14 July 2006):
 hi i think you could go out to the clubs or look onh the net like on penpals website i have a really good one for u were u could meet lod of new people it the website is www.bingbox.com u will have to sing up for it but it is are really good place to start i think i think you would like it hoep to here fro u soon ok if u wont to send me a e mail my me mail address it [email address blocked] of u can send me a email on here ok from miss_nice2006
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Well, not wanting to spend the summer alone is not a good reason to get in to a long term relationship as such, because long term (happy and healthy) relationships come from first being happy and comfortable with yourself. It is true boyfriends and the attention they provide fill the void of loneyness however the underlying issue of feeling alone will remain a problem because a long term boyfriend is not to fill what is missing within you but rather complement you and your feelings of feeling alone will sooner or later surface and bring problems in to the relationship.The best place though to find suitable boys is through your group of friends, or through places where boyfriend-material boys are likely to be. e.g. NOT clubs and bars. Do you have any interests or hobbies? If you can join any groups that you are interested in, you are likely to meet lots of new people and hopefully single guys that are on the same wavelength as yourself! Don't look to hard to find a guy, instead try and fill up your days doing things that will take away that lonely feeling. Get yourself out with your friends, do things to occupy your time and I bet Mr Right will come along when you least expect it. Good luck, and have a good summer! :)
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