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writes:Last September I started seeing someone that I really liked. Because we didn't see each other enough, we decided to end it. Since this he has been in a relationship with another girl, and been seeing another girl, obviously not at the same time. But whenever he's single and we meet up, we always end up sleeping together. I like him, a lot, but it's never me that suggests or hints it, it's always him, yet he say's he doesn't like me in that way anymore, and that we're just friends. I really need to know what to do in this situation, because every time I sleep with him, and I realise that nothings going to come out of it, it really, really hurts, and I can't keep doing it.Why does my friend want to sleep with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): You're a big girl. Time to grow up and take responsibility for yourself. You're not doing anything you don't want to do.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2008):
 This is a no brainer really. You're his fall back. Confidence boost when the relationships he's tried have failed. And a break up always leaves us feeling a tad uneasy whoevers doing the ending.
Your his convenience. His confidence boost to remind him he's still 'got what it takes' Dont let him be. Some playa friend once said to me, people only get used if they let themselves be. Disgusting mindset if you ask me, but nonetheless sadly true. Just say no.
C xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): He possibly wants to just use you for sex while hes single because he knows you'll do it. You could be a re-bound...
Either way he doesn't like you and you need to have a bit more strength and self-respect by just saying no. That way he won't use you, you won't keep getting hurt and you'll finally learn to get over him and find someone that won't use you.
And who will love and care about you forever.
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