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writes:HiI have a problem regarding the female orgasm. My current girlfriend has NEVER released any cum/liquid etc when she orgasms. She believes that she has orgasmed but she has never released any liquid/goo stuff in any of her relationships. She's worried that she's never had a proper orgasm.I know that my previous girlfriend did occasionally have this release.Is this normal?
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reader, faithful81  +, writes (22 April 2008):
It should be fine, it also depends on the mood and timing of sex. Sometimes, my girlfriend doesn't have orgasms at all (no matter) However, 8-10 days after her period, I've seen her having ten orgasms in 30 mins. She completely drenches the bed :)
Just keep trying, remember, some sexual positions (gspot ones) will make it easier to have wetter orgasms.
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 I agree with fish food.
Not all girls have 30 second orgasms and release this 'gooey stuff'. I don't. My orgasms last about 2 or 3, maybe 4 if I'm lucky, seconds. The only thing that happens to me is that I just get wetter.
Not all girls experience female ejaculation. and ninty nine percent of the 'squirters' you see in pornos are fake. It's water that they are 'queefing'. Any girl can learn to do THAT. This can happen with air, also, when it's forced into the vagina during intercourse that the girl is in a position when her vagina muscles are pulled open by the position, i.e feet behind her head, or legs over his shoulders. Think of the air as water. If you pour water into her vagina, and she clenches her muscles like she would to stop peeing in mid-stream, the water with exit her very very quickly. That is the trick they use in the pornos. This air issue can also be present in yoga, gymnastics, and stretching.
Hope this information helps!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): well ive never squirted or gushed! Its an individual thing just because your ex did doesnt mean any of your future girlfriends will. Have you watched too many fake squirters on porn. More women dont than do. Your girlfriends normal so try not to degrade her by saying she hasnt had an orgasm etc and comparing her to your ex will definately not win you brownie points.
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reader, fishfood +, writes (15 February 2007):
 It varys with each person. Some girls will only get wet whilst others actually have a form of female ejaculation. Its the same with orgasms, some girls only last around 5 seconds whilst others can last up to 30. There is no such thing as right or wrong, normal or abnormal, so dont worry yourself about how much your girlfriend "produces down there", just concentrate on having fun. Tell her not to worry about whether she has had a proper orgasm because an orgasm is individual to every person so different things happen, and when she has one she'll know it.
try experimenting and see what happens. Good luck and have fun!!! x
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