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When I looked into her eyes, I was in heaven. But because I'm a girl too, she thinks of me as a mate...

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Question - (19 March 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

Hey I'mm only 13 and I'm a girl but I'm madly in love with the same sex. I fell in love with her since we started year 8 and she was going out with this boy. She always talked to me about how romantic they are to each other and she would go all soft and cute. This really turned me on and I thought Ii really did like her. We talked on msn and we got all flirty, saying we love each other and do some flirting, that made me love her more.

She broke my heart when I said somthing wrong to her on msn by accident. I didnt mean it, but she took it the wrong way and all the flriting stopped for a while.

She was saying that I haven't called her for a while. But we fell out for about a month and Ii was really heartbroken. But we started talking again. it wasn't as lovey as it was, but I'm glad, I feel close to her again.

Because I was madly in love, it was depressing me at home because i know i can never get with her because Ii think she only likes me as a mate.

My parents moved me form because they thought my form was making me depressed but it actually is the girl Ii love that is hurting me. I only moved form four weeks ago and I'm always visiting her. I sort of got over her when I moved form, but now I'm back in love with her again.

I love the way she touches my arm and my hands when she talks to me or takes me somewhere. I looked deeply into her eyes the other day and I felt like I was in heaven. I really need this girl before I get heart broken. I know she is my true love because I can't get over her :(

You may think I'm some dirty lesbian or somthing but I'm not; I just can't help falling in love.

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A female reader, playgirls3xy United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2007):

Heya well ok im 13 im a girl and im bi-sexual and i have the same feelings as u hunni. ive been madly in love with my best mate (who is also a girl) since year 8 and im now year 9. well our other best mate who also is a girl i told her i was bi ages ago and ive met her a few times, which i never thought would have happened, i just had 2 say i was bisexual and then we started from there. but i have talked to the girl i am truly in love and found out how she feels about bi-sexuals and then she said she wouldnt mind, so i told her that i was and well she told me that she was bi too, she asked me would i ever meet her because she found out that i met her other mate and i said yes and i asked her the same, she said yes. but we never have, i want 2. she hugs me alot and tells me that she loves me and feels my leg (only for a laugh though.) she has the most gorgeous eyes and bum ever. and when she touches my hand/arm/leg or anything i get so wet and feel really nice. but you should talk to her and find out how she feels about bisexuals and lesbians or whatever, and then tell her if she seems fine about it and you never know she might say the same, i never would have thought that my mates where bisexual but i have 5 who are, they told me when i told them. but you need to tell her if you ever want to see if anything will become of it. hope i helped bbz. luv ya x0x0x0x0x0x0x

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A reader, Soul sister +, writes (31 March 2005):

hi,

you sound like a lovely girl........who is a bit confused.

You obviously feel strongly about this girl and you should follow your heart and decide whether you want to tell her if she is truly your mate she will understand how you feel. It sounds like she feels the same because of all of this flirting. You should try to look at other people, girls and boys, and see if you feel the same about them as you do about this girl. That will put you on your tracks and help you understand about how you feel about different sexes.

Good luck. I wish you the best!

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A reader, Andrea Benton, writes (21 March 2005):

I know exactly how you feel. I am a year old bisexual, and sometimes I can't even help the way that I am feeling about some of my close friends. But have you two talked about her opinion of bi's or lesbians? That may have a lot to do with a lot of things. She may be totally against it.

What you two should do is just sit and talk about it. Or have a get-together with her. If she feels the same way that you do about lesbians that she will not object to it. You may want to talk to her about it though, because you could end up getting hurt. If you ever need to talk to someone that is on your page, then email me at [email address blocked] I'll gladly reply and give you one-on-one support the best that I can!

Dont worry about it though everything will fall into place. You'll see. I'm serious though e-mail me, okay.

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A reader, nicola, writes (20 March 2005):

Don't worry, you're just trying to find your sexuality!

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