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writes:I have a Big problem anytime Im havin sex either I come too Quick or I cant get hard or I get hard for a lil while and it go down I really need help with that because I dont why this happenin to me please get back at me with some good answer thanks
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reader, Mark25  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 The biggest cause for losing an erection or premature ejaculation is nerves and anxiety. Don't worry about it too much. The more you have sex with her the more the less likely these things will happen. Alternatively, there are a number of things that you could do to prevent premature ejaculation. When you feel like you're going to come pull out and gently squeeze where the glands and shaft of the penis meet until the feeling of ejaculation goes. You could even get your girlfriend to do it for you for extra fun. It may become less erect but when you resume foreplay again it'll re-harden. You can do this as many times as you like. Or there's the start-stop technique. As soon as you feel a bit pressure, like you're ready to come, then stop. Wait for a few seconds and then start again. Like the squeeze technique this can also be done as many times as you like. Using either of these techniques can make lovemaking last for ages. Good luck.
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reader, jesslee +, writes (15 September 2008):
I posted a similar question and received some really good responses.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-losing-interest-in-me--he.html
The above is the link to the question I asked, and it has some really good tips and answers..
One lady suggested going to these web sites, the purpose is to learn about have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Which would make you last longer and you and your partner would both benfit from it.
http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm
http://sexuality.about.com/od/orgasms/ht/htmalemultiples.htm
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): Sounds like its just nerves, the more you have sex the less of a problem it will become. I would look at your masturbating habits as well, if it's something you do frequently maybe you should cut back or stop while you become accustomed to coming from sex.
If it's with a girlfriend or the same partner every time reassure her that you do find her gorgeous and the problem isnt her.
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