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When I asked him out he said "let's get to know each other better, first". Is this his polite way of saying No?

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Question - (20 January 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

ive liked this guy for a while now (about 10 months) and he claims he liked me the same amount of time but when ever one was singel the other was taken and finally after 10 months we both single. we have flirted loads and had a few kisses. last night when we was walking to get some food he held me close to him as we walked and i turn to him and asked him out he said maybe and i asked for him to explain it he said i want to know u better first is this just a nicer way of saying no. it really confusing me though as he tells me he likes me then when i ask him out he says no :(

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2007):

willywombat agony auntI think then he just wants to 'get to know you better' before choosing to make any sort of commitment to you which would involve being exclusive to each other. Go out on a few dates and see if you enjoy your time together.

Good luck.

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007):

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im 18 and go out as in gf/bf as we have been on a few dates already

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntUnfortunately the only way to know is by asking him. Maybe this is embarassing but you sometimes have to take risks to be happy.

CD

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2007):

AngelofLove agony auntYou need to have a proper conversation with the guy and asked to clarify.

It is very easy to jump to conclusions but in the middle of the street perhaps he did not feel very comfortable to talk about it.

Good luck x

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2007):

willywombat agony auntCan I ask how old you are? Plus, can I ask what you meant when you said you 'asked him out'? Only, I am unsure if you meant you wanted to go out with him on a date or as BF and GF?

Cheers.

xx

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