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When he is not being distant he is being mean!

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Question - (7 August 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

well i been with my boyfriend for 6 years,for some reason he has been really distance and really mean about everything we never spend time together anymore i dont understand whats going on with him i just want it to me like used to be he treats me like i dont matter and am invisble does this mean we are done ?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (7 August 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntWhat a great "partner"..... he's either DISTANT (non-communicative) or MEAN (nasty)....

Cripes.... why don't you ask: Is he an a*shole or an insufferable je*k???? Same question....

You can do better.

Good luck....

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A female reader, Just Gill United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2012):

Just Gill agony auntIn this situation you should ask him. Find out why he's being like that with you. Or spice things up between you and him, send saucy text message's, remind him why you and him are in this relationship. You have been together for some time now, you will know him so use your knowledge to help him get interested again. Dont jump to conclusions so fast, the fact that your asking advise means to me your not ready to finnish with him. Dont lead it down that path just yet, find out more from him. You need to ask him why he's acting that way. Is there anything going on in his life that you think might make him act that way towards you? when did it start? did something happen before all this started?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012):

I would say the relationship has run it's course and he has already checked out, he is just too cowardly to end it with you, and is trying to get you to end it with him. I know how much that hurts, but I wouldn't prolong the pain if I was you. At the moment he sees that he can treat you this way and you won't leave him, don't let him treat yu this way, you deserve better. Good Luck sweetie.

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A female reader, confuzzledamethyst United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2012):

confuzzledamethyst agony auntalthough I am very young I had the same problem i found out he was acting this way becuase he didnt love me anymore it was completely unecesarry and after I tried talking to him he still carried I suggest you shpuld talk to him ask if everything is ok if nothing changes I would have to say its probably best to end it.

hope everything does get sorted tho if not im very sorry :( xx

confuzzledamethyst x

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