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writes:I have been seeing this guy for a month, we havent gone too far physically but I stayed at his house one night. Today I said to him "What is this" and his response was I dont know, I havent really thought about it. That was the end of that conversation. What I want to know is when does a guy start to think about becoming exclusive with a girl/starting a relationship and is it possible for a guy to date someone for a month and not actually think about that? Or could I have possibly taken him by surprise and he didn't know what to say? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2012): I was casually seeing my boyfriend for several months and had stayed at his house a couple of times before he actually asked me to be his girlfriend and that only happened because I said I didn't like his family thinking we were friends with benefits. Guys can be thick. He probably hasn't considered it from your point of view and just thinks you're both having fun and taking it easy or something. Might pay to mention it to him again.
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reader, eden777  +, writes (16 September 2012):
A guy thinks about exclusiveness from the first date. Are you in denial? You have been seeing him for a month now and you think by asking him where you both stand may have took him by surprise and he didn't know what to say, you must not think much of yourself. You are young, please know your self-worth. Thank God, you haven't gone too far physically because you don't want to give him the best of you when you don't even know where you stand with him? You want to make love with someone who loves and cherishes you, who goes out of his way to make you feel special, who treats you good with respect and value. Your the prize, not him, he should be writing the question, is she into me? How do I ask her to be exclusive with me? You should not even consider giving your goods to someone with whom you need to post a question about not knowing, or being in denial of the fact that he is just not that into you. A guy knows what he wants with a girl from the beginning, he knows when he wants to call you, when he wants you to visit or go out, he should know if he wants to date you exclusively right? You know the answer, be strong, don't have sex with him and again; your the prize, be confident and let him stress for you, let him value you. As I have said, your young, there will be plenty of others, others... you won't have to question about because he will show you, you'll be happy with butterflies, confident and secure in your relationship. "Next", should be in your mind. Time is precious.
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