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30-35,
*ivaRandal
writes:my husband used to rebuke girls(when he was 24-26) who would reject him or didnt consider him as gods gift to women,calling them the C word or sexually abusing some girl whom he fancied and she didnt return the gesture.then he would hit on girls he would like.very hurriedly got engaged(at 25) and wanted a baby quick as well as deciding baby names even before he got married(at 27)had a baby in 2008 and is said to have changed(verbal abuse and immature activity) after the birth of his daughter.and at 31 he made statements against a close female friend(whos 7 years his junior)on radio which that she sleeps around,knows 10 guys whos been with her and must be in bed with someone while hes talking,indirectly calling her a slut and was refusing to apologize.and again he said hes a big fan of her sarcastically.they were quite good friends,friends since 5 years and work in the same place.they would sit together and he would play pranks on her too,once i saw a backstage photo of both of them where he was quite close to her,hand on her waist body slightly titled towards her but suddenly this came into notice,him indirectly calling her a slut.everyone understood that he either has a huge crush on her or had something going on.why??hes not a bad person at heart but why such insecurity???whats wrong with him??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): Please don't take what I'm going to say lightly. I grew up in a household where the parents where very similar to your situation. You have to get out now. He is not stable and it's usually only a matter of time before the verbal abuse changes to physical abuse. You can try to talk to him but the fact is that nobody deserves to be treated like that and you need to leave. I'm sure you can do better. If not then he needs to talk to a psychologist. He could have depression issues, but it just sounds like he is nasty. You should leave him before it's too late.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 September 2011):
 does he love you?
what do you think?
and do not base it on what he says... base it on how he acts. is the man capable of loving someone?
my bf loves me... he rarely says it but boy he shows it... I base knowing he loves me on how he acts.... not what he says.
my last husband SAID he loved me but his actions never showed it. but then he doesn't love himself either.
in order to love someone else you have to love yourself first.
if your husband disrespects you, is it worth it?
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reader, DivaRandal +, writes (21 September 2011):
DivaRandal is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondoes he love me or not??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): and you married him??!!! honestly im wondering if something maybe wrong with you! this guy is a nut job!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 September 2011):
his abuse of women is not insecurity.
I think that men that generally are abusive to women do not like or respect women in general. this is a personality trait and not insecurity.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (20 September 2011):
 He is a user and an abuser. You say you are married to this man yet you put up with his disgusting behaviour?
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