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writes: I met a guy in 2007 but at the time we lived in different cities so we stayed friends through email then Facebook. We talked frequently with laps in between when dating other people etc we are in the same industry so we have lots in common but he's much more successful then me which may be the problemI moved back to the same city he lives in two years ago but he was with someone. They broke up a month or so ago and suddenly he contacts me and invites me to a party. I went and had a good time and he asked for my cell I didn't hear from him so I emailed and asked if he wanted to get coffee, to which he turned around and invited me to dinner and I acceptedWe had fun and stayed for hours he paid. But at the end he didn't try to kiss me nor make plans I thanked him in text and said we should do it again but he has not taken me up on it. What's wrong? I'm cute and fun he was not bored but something happened right? I'm lost
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2011): Thanks guys. I just didn't understand why he upped coffee to an expensive$$$ dinner that he paid for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2011): Not every guy out there is going to find you really attractive...some will and some won't. The ones who do will ask you out on dates without prompting and make a move. You prompted the dating after he didn't call and he decided he still wasn't into you even though he gave it a go! That's what happened and I wouldn't waste a second more on him even if you get a random call from him one day...he's not going to change his preference in women over the next few weeks!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 October 2011):
 I agree he sees you as a friend not a girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2011): Sounds like he sees you as a friend rather than girlfriend.It doesn't matter how cute and fun you are if the xfactor isnt there for him
If he' recently split with somebody then maybe he doesn't want anymore than friendship just now.
Could be many things, but he knows you like him he knows how to get in touch......
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