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What's with this Personal Trainer at the Gym? He stares at me but then breaks appointments.

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Question - (30 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

Why would he text me like that? Should I bother replying? There's this Personal Trainer at my gym that has been starring me at me all the time everywhere.

On the bus, at the gym, while I'm in another room working out he'd be watching me through the doors.

Anyway, I took his spin class AND he totally ignored me like I wasn't even there.

I felt so bad. After the class he asked us to book personal training session with me AND I did.

It was today AND he texted me this early morning.

"Hi its ..... from (Gym name).......Apologies have to reschedule our 11am appointment can you let me know of your next availability please. Thanks and apologies again."

How should I reply to this? Im available tomorrow.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (30 August 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI agree you are reading way too much into this.

he's a personal trainer.. it's his JOB to make you think he wants you to be with him.... he gets PAID for it.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 August 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI think you are reading to much in to him looking at you. You have managed to convince yourself that there is something going on between the both of you. He could be just one of those people who stare but mean nothing by it. His text message is simply telling you that he cannot make the appointment it is professional and apologetic which is completely the right way to go about it, so I guess if you are still wanting to take the class then tell him when you are free, however please do not expect to much from this.

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