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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I really need some help with my ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend.My ex-boyfriend and I were going out for 9 months, we do love each other and we want a future together. But, the thing is, I dumped him recently because I was having a bit of a "Teenage breakdown" type thing, he was heartbroken and said he never wanted to speak to me again. That didn't last long and now we're talking again.The thing is, I now have a new boyfriend who really doesn't respect me, AT ALL. He "controlled" me in a way for months, I was terrified of him. But then I stood my ground with him and we're no longer like that.He can be so sweet to me, but when he's mean, he's MEAN.I really want my ex-boyfriend back, but he says he isn't ready until I get rid of my boyfriend, I rang my boyfriend and was about to dump him. Suddenly, my ex said not to dump him.My ex was very drunk the other day and said he loved me and always will.Whats with these mixed signals?What should I do?Thanks x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 February 2008):
 Sometimes , people will say one thing and do another thing. Some will say go but in the end they did not go. You need to discern what is from the heart and not what is from the mouth.
The mouth can tell lies but the heart cannot. There is your answer.
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