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writes: I have been dating this guy for a month now and need some advice on how to take things further. He is my first "serious" boyfriend and I feel I am in love with him. However I am kind of shy and so is he, I do not want to push things too hard and scare him away! We have kissed but I want to really kiss (passionately) and get closer to him. How do I go about it? Please any advice is welcome!(also age is not a problem as we are both way over 16)Thanks in advance :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, yes the night was fantastic!!! Thank you :) the first time wasn't so great (hitting teeth etc!) but we tried again and he said he really enjoyed it! Thank you for the link it has some great info. Well if practise helps i won't be holding back anymore lol.Thank you again you have solved my problem x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Well things are going great!!!!(:0) Did he enjoy the night love and did you? When your kissing you can play around with his tongue slowly and sexy and also gently biting his lip as you kiss is sexy (gently hun dont take a great chunk out!!!!!LOL!!!) If everything went well then follow his lead open your eyes and enjoy yourself men love it when a woman is looking at them (well alot do I dont want hate mail saying "I dont"!!!!!) the more you practice the more you learn so keep on kissing sweetheart, Im glad you are happy hunny just dont worry and everything will be fine and remember relax, Go into your own little world with just the two of you...Got you a link hunny browse away its got the kissing bit hope this helps.....
http://askheartbeat.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=7&Itemid=27
It may help with other things as well love but as most sites it all wont apply to you but have fun looking at what will TAKE CARE HUN LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi again, well last night we got further than just a kiss on the lips :D
However i am, lets say, a novice at kissing with tongues. Does this get better with practise? And when he put his tongue in my mouth do i keep my tongue in my mouth and then move it into his after or while has his tongue in my mouth. If that makes sense, i just dont know if im doing it right!!! Sorry for the graphic question but i need help please :o
Thanks again for all the advice x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Thats ok sweety my pleasure TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, your advice is the best. I feel so much better about it. Next i see him i will make contact!Thanks again! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Hi Hun
Glad to here the lip trick worked its great eh! Hunny let it come naturally he is being a good guy some guys can be a little impatient but your guy is letting you take it at your own speed which is really good..If you feel like popping your hand in his and giving a little squeeze thats a good way to start then your confidence will get better as he will reciprocate by giving you a squidge. Dont feel to nervous hun he may be feeling the same, relax the first contact is always a little scarey your heart beats like your chest is going to explode! But it wont (:0)Once that first touch is out of the way it will become easier stroke his neck while you sitting together or as you walk past him, give him a gentle hug it will all come together slowly but surely sweetheart, As soon as you are comfortable he will be comfortable and vice versa...I hope this helps hunny TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice mandy! My lips are now ready for kissing, but nothing has happend yet, through fear or shyness i dont know.
ANOTHER QUESTION.....Could anyone tell me at what time in a relationship do things develop, like hugging, kissing and more? I dont want to rush things with my boyfriend but also leave him feeling unloved and bored.
Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): please do let us know :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat is great advice guys thank you. I will keep you updated if anything happens!
Thanks again! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): get him alone of course. Make sure he wants to kiss you at the time you choose to. Make it slow and cherish every moment of it ! if you wanna use tongue the go for it but if not make out !!!! you shouldn't worry so much about both of you being shy I'm sure he wants a passionate kiss as much as you do and will love it when you make the first move. Make it last ! Have fun !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Dont focus to much on it, let yourself get into it, A slow passionate kiss definatly not to much tongue some may like this but most men that ive known havent, always keep your lips well mosturised vaseline, To keep your lips lovely and kissable soft... gently with a soft toothbrush and vaseline give them a soft scrub, Then add more vaseline and always look after your lips nice soft lips are a must...Close your eyes and just let your feelings take over. Hope that helped a little now Im going to snog my fella cheers love(:0) TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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