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writes:Hello: What's the difference between male and female fantasy, do we fantasize the same?This guy told me that he fantasizes about me, I'm thinking like, living together, sex of course but having a life together, then it hit me, that maybe men and women do not think the same. He s a very touchy person in general, and over the months of our meeting we have had a few 'intimate' moments in words and gesture...then its been months of back and forth on the emotions..and I'm tired of hurting from him...I guess its called emotinal affair, nevertheless, perhaps his telling me he loves me more than that, and fanasizes about me is the jist of it??..is this what is called A game or being Played? Not long ago he told me he was crazy about me...I waited and just got hurt again..now he says he's ugly in front of me..I'm confused.. is there any truth is such behavior or pursuit??Any factual responses welcome. Thanks..
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (24 January 2009):
maybe you should relax and forget about all the mixed up stuff. if he said he has a fantasy of you then that's nothing bad. don't worry about what it is, sometimes fantasys are best not known. just enjoy being with him.
if you can't understand him then leave him. it's simple
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Hard to say, what are your fantasies about? Living together? What does that mean, you masturbate thinking about going curtain shopping with him? In that case, yeah, men think differently. Curtains are NOT involved.
It also really means what kind of fantasy you mean. Do we men every fantasize what it would be like to live with her (and not just sex). Sure.
Deep down we are not that different.
But I think you got another far more serious question. What we dream/fantasize about is a nice topic for the forum, shouldn't you focus on mention you are hurting from this relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): It really depends on the person , not the gender of a person.
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