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Whats the deal with this guy and his ex?

Tagged as: Dating, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (18 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *leudancer writes:

Here it goes!

I met this new guy a couple of months ago through a mutual friend. We remained in contact even though we hadn't seen each other for about a month. We went out last night, i was hammered, so was he. His ex girlfriend shows up at the bar we were at. He and I danced together and he also danced with her a few other people and I did the same. He gives me his jacket to wear when we're leaving for the walk home, and talks with other friends while we're all walking. We get to our friend's place. I immediately sit down on the couch, he follows, we snuggle, it's nice. THEN! His ex girlfriend calls. (around 2 am) He doesn't answer her call. I told him he should have answered she could need help but he said that she just wanted to get down with him and that she's still into him. Anyway, he then goes on to tell me that he likes me but that things in his life are a little messy, he thinks I deserve someone who will give me what I need... This is all I remember. He also gave me a kiss on the cheek. I just want to know if these are signs that he's still dating her or having relations with her. They were friendly, not too touchy feely, but he did buy her drinks and spend some time with her while I was away. What do you guys think is going on?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010):

the fact that they still are pretty comfy with eachother doesnt mean much, its not new most couples after break-up still talk nothing serious, but on the other hand if one of them still has feelings for the other or both of them then they could eventually get together. All the same if he says he likes you but he is kinda in a mess now maybe you should give it time, let him clear himself up but make sure you guys remain friends if you want it to work with the two of you

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